Relationship Between Husband & Wife in Islam.

Husband and Wife relationship begins with Wed-Lock (Nikkah) and can take them to Jannah. They become garb (clothes) of each other. It is narrated by Hazrat Ayesha(R.A) "I would drink then I would hand it (the vessel) to the Prophetﷺ and HE would put his mouth where mine had been and drink and I would eat the meat from a bone and HE would put his mouth where mine had been". (Al-Hadees) Hazrat Muhammadﷺ is a role model and if Muslims follow hisﷺ behavior towards their wives, then the relationship between couples would be ideal. If we look back at the history, we shall come to know that Hazrat Fatima (R.A) was not just a wife to Hazrat Ali (R.A). Hazrat Ali (R.A) looked upon her as a companion who was accustomed to his pain and his great wishes. She was the only companion of his loneliness. When a Husband and Wife look at each other with Love, ALLAH look at them with mercy (Al-Hadees) This amorous entanglement can be enhanced by loving each other. If they comprehend themselves no power except ALLAH can shatter their relationship. You will see nothing like marriag Husband and Wife relationship begins with Wed-Lock (Nikkah) and can take them to Jannah. They become garb (clothes) of each other. It is narrated by Hazrat Ayesha(R.A)
"I would drink then I would hand it (the vessel) to the Prophetﷺ and HE would put his mouth where mine had been and drink and I would eat the meat from a bone and HE would put his mouth where mine had been". (Al-Hadees)
Hazrat Muhammadﷺ is a role model and if Muslims follow hisﷺ behavior towards their wives, then the relationship between couples would be ide e to increasing the love of two people. From the very beginning, marriage is all about trust. The true relationship is the one in which there are some little fights, but also have patience, love, and faith. But today the sad thing is a woman and man marry with each other for reasons and some of these are ●Wealth ●Status in society ● Looks But nobody pays attention to his/her religion and character. Be a successful person but always select a person who has religion and character... Now the question is what keeps the marriage alive? This can be done by showing mercy towards each other, by being courageous. Once a man comes to Hazrat Umer (R.A) and said " I want to divorce my wife" He said " why do you want to divorce your wife? " the man said" I don't love her anymore. I don't find her attractive any more. He asked him " what about courtesy? She doesn't take care of your kids?" So here, the point is that if a husband does best with her wife, he will be the most satisfied person in the world. The prophet said about the husbands who don't their wives:" Fear Allah in respect of women" On the other hand, the wife should also understand her duties. Abu Huraira reported that the prophet said: " If I were to order anyone to prostrate himself before another, I would have ordered a woman to prostrate herself before her husband". The wife has a role in supporting her husband and she can do that by listening to him rather than lecturing his husband. The harsh words can break the relationship very easily. And the house with this kind of relationship is actually a house of Satan. Jabir reported that Allah's messenger said: " Iblis places his throne upon water; he then sends detachments; the nearest to him in rank are those who are most notorious in creating dissension. On of then comes and says: I did so and so. And he says: You have done nothing. The another says: I didn't spare so and so but I sowed the seed of discord between husband and a wife. The Satan goes near him and says: You've done well." (MUSLIM) So, both have to care the other side instead of expecting from the other side just make a goal now to take care of each other. They need to spend time together. Allah has created man and woman differently. Husband is different and wife is different but together they can form an ideal relationship. In marriage, there are some limits that they shouldn't cross. It's called a sacrifice. Life is full of learning. If we don't learn we'll not be able to lead a beautiful life. The bests relationship is the one in which both are good to each other